I’m a Feminist. Pay For My Meal.
6 min readJul 29, 2020
Ah, yes. Date etiquette. The debate that launched 1000 tweets.
Cards on the table: I have split the bill on dates before while in a long term relationship. I have paid for dates before while dating women. I have also had my meals paid for by men. I don’t do the bashful ‘oh no, let me. Are you sure?’ dance. I don’t even enter discussion. If a man has asked me on a date, he is paying. Not despite my feminism, but because of it.